The untimely death of Michael Jackson has meant a new airing of lots of his music. The lyrics that have been on my mind are:
'I'm Starting With The Man In The Mirror
I'm Asking Him To Change His Ways...If you Wanna Make The World
A Better Place Take A Look At Yourself And Then Make A Change'
It reminds me of the joke about the Bride who was worried about the order of her wedding service. She set off up the aisle muttering "aisle-altar-hymn". What people heard was "I'll alter him!". Getting married with that idea in mind would be disastrous.